You may find the article Are Your Habits the Barrier to Your Online Success? useful. The author posits the idea that many of us have certain traits or habits that prevent our success. This lack of success may be in business, but it also may in other areas of life. The habits he mentions apply mostly to blogging success, but the idea raises the question: what personal traits or habits are preventing you from success in your job, your relationships, your life, etc.?
Maybe this idea will give you the inspiration to examine your life to see if there are any positive changes you can make to improve yourself. You might also want to ask some friends or family members what are some things you need to change. Such examination might be emotionally painful, but if you are earnest at change and success, it will be well worth it.